Wednesday, December 24, 2008

The Latest Hubub

ok so lets see it's day...6 i think :)

i have been accepted in to the Glaize clan. i am learning the secret rituals and i have been exposed to the inner workings of this civilization.
we celebrated Adam's birthday ( the brother in law) and it was very interesting to see how they do birthdays. there is a song they sing that is fairly long, and everybody knows all the words and melody too. Adam says he likes to watch my face when they do stuff like that because then he's not the only one who feels out of place when they sing happy birthday or recite the really long dinner prayers that they all learned because they read it from a cook book.

mostly we hang out and talk, or play video games with his brothers, which is to say they play video games while i crochet in the same room and heckle them:)

Kate, Barb, and I decorated and made cookies all yesterday and we talked about wedding stuff. it was lots of fun. we made a cookie called the catilac it's their Memaw's recipie and they are very good. and when we were decorating the ginger bread men and women Kate and I added a few special additions to a couple of them. but we all know that i'm really bad at being an accomplice and i got the giggles. it was really funny.

it was pretty dang cold the other day so i took a picture next to the temp sign

yeah that's the correct temperature.... needless to say but i will any way, i'm freezing

us trying to look awake in North Carolina even though we were super tired. this while we were eating pizza and drinking mochas


this is all the weird stuff we found in the air port the guy with the santa hat is just some dude in the airport that i got a sneak attack picture of as we walked by. it was hard because there was a lot of foot traffic in that area so we walked by once to scope the area out then a 2nd time to get the pic.

These are pictures of Aaron's house and a bunch of different places we found around town.


this is his parents Church, there is a golden chandelier in the main lobby and pillars in side the main sanctuary.....


yeah so that's about it for now, we are wrapping presents and stuff today and then going to church tonight. i love and miss you guys and Merry Christmas!
LOVE,
Donna


ps i don't know why the pictures are spaced out so funky

Saturday, December 20, 2008

We arrived!

so here i am day two of being at the Glaize house and im having a good time!
his parents are wonderful, his brothers so fun, and his sister is very cool. they are all so funny we laugh a lot and i am seeing where a lot of aaron's traits come from.

the trip here was interesting... aaron forgot to bring id to the airport so they almost didn't let us past security eek. after both of us being interrogated by security they finally et us through. on the first flight we sat next to a really nice lady from rancho Bernardo and she shared her extra snacks and she and i shared ear buds to listen to her husbands band and to watch the movie last Holiday on her laptop. turns out our first flight was movin a lot faster than they thought and we ended up having a 4 hour layover in NC. we spent an hour of it "sleeping" on the floor and the rest drinking starbucks, eating pizza from CA pizza Kitchen, and making fun of the south in general.

i called mom and then it was time to go.

we drove almost 2 hours to his house and then proceeded to hang out. it's been fun.

i was up for 36 hours straight before it was bed time. i didn't go to bed till 9:45 ish and i didn't wake up till the same time the next morning. i was still in the same position i was when i laid my head down the night before. 12 hrs of non motion pure amazing sleep :)

today i woke up, crocheted, and talked and sipped coffee with Barb. played video games with his brothers and then went and saw Dan sing at a Walk Through Bethlehem, it's similar to the play Heather's church puts on for easter and it was really cool.
we're about to eat dinner, so i'm gonna peace out. I miss you guys and i will write again soon!


BUNCHES OF LOVE,
Donna Brr

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Cookies!!!

Heather came over and made fantastic Sugar cookies with me.
We watched a lil office and talked about wedding stuff it was fun!





Jiffy Pop

Aaron and I were sitting in the living room when dad comes in and asks "How would you like to make 20 bucks?"
This is a tricky question for my household in that some times the things they are about to ask of you is easy and not really worth the 20 bucks and some times the tasks are beasts and are worth well over 20 bucks. But you never know until say yes. That's the kicker.
We took a gamble and said yes. The task? go to Walmart and pick up some stuff they needed for a Homless out reach sweet we scored!
So we went off in to the craziness that is shopping on a weekend near Christmas time at Walmart.
We gathered all the items from the list and as we were perusing the snack isle Aaron told me he had never had Jiffy Pop before.
so we did a lil back and forth banter of "We should get some then!!!" (me) and "No we don't really need it" (Aaron)
take a look at the pictures below to find out who won ;)
P.S. we had a lot of fun just as i thought we would.















Putting up the lights

the day after thanksgiving is traditionally teh day we put up our Christmas decorations. last year we waited till i came home form England, but this year things were right on track.
it was fun Aaron and Jo got the stuff out of the attic and while they were up there they found a lil something special.
it can only be described best with pictures so with out further adulation.




Thursday, December 11, 2008

From the 850 Words of Relevant email

this is what i was talking about a few weeks ago
also check out allies blog it's go the video component

This year, Black Friday—the day after Thanksgiving that traditionally kicks off the season of holiday spending—was especially dark. Early that day, a crowd of bargain hunters trampled an employee to death as they rushed into a New York Wal-Mart at 5 a.m. Three others, including a 28-year-old pregnant woman, also suffered from minor injuries. As reports about the incident continued to surface throughout the day, many were asking, "Is this what Christmas has become?"
If the more than 800 churches worldwide who are participating in Advent Conspiracy are to be believed, the answer to that question is a resounding no. Advent Conspiracy is a movement that started in 2006 as a way to reclaim the Christmas season. "There's been a significant drift from the worship of Jesus," says Greg Holder, the pastor of Windsor Crossing in St. Louis, Mo., and one of the creators of Advent Conspiracy. "We've seen anxiety and frustration consume entire communities as people start believing the lie that celebrating Christmas is about hyper consumerism."
Holder, along with Chris Seay, the pastor of Ecclesia in Houston, Texas and Rick McKinley, pastor of Imago Dei in Portland, Ore., launched Advent Conspiracy as a way to lead their congregations into meaningful worship during Christmastime. They put the focus squarely on worship and service instead of gifts and established four guiding principles: Worship Fully, Spend Less, Give More and Love All.
If the principles "spend less" and "give more" seem contradictory, that's because U.S. culture's understanding of giving is a little off. Consumerism allows people to create the illusion of giving without having to sacrifice anything personal. The three pastors encouraged their congregations to forgo much of their gift buying and spending on commercial items, and instead to give gifts of presence, creativity and time.
It isn't that most gifts are wrong, just misguided. "We're not Scrooges," Holder says. "We're not against gifts. We want people to pull back on giving meaningless gifts."
The money that would’ve been spent on presents was pooled and used to provide clean water for communities in third world countries. According to Jeanne McKinley, Rick McKinley's wife and the director of Advent Conspiracy at Imago Dei, the decision to connect Advent Conspiracy with water was deliberate, contrasting the desperate need for water in many places to the comfortable lifestyles of those in the U.S. "Water is a starting point. It's the most basic need that all of us have," she says. "If we meet that need then we can go forward in relationship with the people receiving clean water."
The first year, five churches participated; by the second year, it spread to include not only hundreds of churches but also high schools, college groups and businesses. Holder considers Advent Conspiracy a common ground where people from all corners of the Christian tradition can meet. "This is a way for the body of Christ to unite,” he says. “It's not just one type of church jumping on board with this. Young, old, liturgical, contemporary, non-denominational, mainline—they're all in. We spend a lot of time talking about our differences, but this is a chance to remind ourselves we are the body of Christ."
One such church, Jacob's Well in Kansas City, Mo., decided to join in 2007. The pastor at Jacob’s Well, Tim Keel, liked that it was a practical extension of the concepts in the book of James, which his congregation studied that fall.
Keel knew his congregation would be willing participants in Advent Conspiracy, but he wasn't prepared for how enthusiastic their response would truly be. As children grasped the core concepts of Advent Conspiracy they asked for money to give to the water collection instead of gifts. Families attended gift-making workshops to learn how to make unique presents for one another. Artists from the Jacob's Well community donated their talents and time to make the season creatively stimulating and truly worshipful.
"I was thinking we'd dig one well," Keel says. "When we had the money to dig four, it was significant. I was surprised by how people took ownership of it, not just as something they were doing in our church, but inviting other people from their lives to participate as well."
As more churches and groups continue to climb on board, Advent Conspiracy will remain decentralized, acting not as an organization but as a resource. It isn't the desire of Advent Conspiracy to dictate how people are celebrating Christmas and donating their money, but to enable congregations to encourage and support each other as they recover the advent season.
"Ultimately, it would be amazing for the Church to stand together and see the water crisis solved because that's how we wanted to spend our Christmas," Jeanne McKinley says. "But for us, the Jesus component is the most important part. Beyond the giving and spending less, more than anything, we want people to engage in worship more fully at Christmas."
Author: Shanna Dipaolo

Saturday, December 6, 2008

Love, Crock Pots, and Good Ol' George

as always i'm just gonna pack a ton of stuff into one blog in order to appease the masses(ie Allie)











So my man Aaron Glaize got me a crock pot and a George forman grill for FREE!!! Also that day he went out and bought me cramp meds and rented a movie for me. You're a good man Charlie Brown.




the next big thing on my mind is the trip we are about to take to see his family in GA. i have been trying to be excited about going, and honestly some times i am very excited, but for the most part i had been dreading it.
i wont be with my family for christmas, i will be meeting tons of new people, i will be living there for 20 days, and i have to make a good impressions.
i was talking with mom about this yesterday and i just feel apart, i started crying for the mostly because i have been holding it in and trying to push it down in order to not ruin it for aaron. but after talking with her and getting it out i'm actually very ok with it now.
i am looking forward to going and i'm not nervous about how it will go. because i know that they will like me. i don't believe this in a cocky way, but i know this because i have so many loved ones who cherish me just as i cherish them. and i am excited to add more people to that group.
and if these people are anything like aaron i will love them because i love him.